The key to having a more sensual sexual experience lies in building a deeper connection with yourself or with a partner.
Following the tips in this guide will help you become more in-tune with your body and what your body finds pleasurable. Focusing on your bodies wants and needs helps you understand the way your body feels pleasure and is key to being able to communicate that to a partner.
Mind & Body
Focus on the breath - Take some time to breathe deeply and with intention. Slowly and gently fill your lungs with air all the way down into your belly and lower back. As you release the breathe allow your body to slowly begin to relax.
Free your mind - As you breathe pay attention to what's going on in your mind. Stress is the ultimate buzz killer and will hinder your sensual experience. Make sure you're focused on fulfilling your sexual desires, whether that be solo or with a partner.
Get your body warmed up - Take a minute or two (or 10) to loosen up your body with some light stretches so it is fully ready to accept pleasure. Give yourself a full-body massage with your favorite oil or lotion. Take your time and focus on how good your fingers feel gliding across your skin. Explore your body softly and completely paying attention to everything your body is feeling.
Environment
Your environment has a direct impact on your ability to relax and fully immerse yourself in this experience.
Set the mood - Dim the lights and light some candles to help set the romantic vibe. Want to up the sensual factor by 1000%? Invest in some soft red light bulbs. I know it might sound a little red light districty but the soft red glow can really change the vibe to that of pure sensuality.
Add your favorite scent - Scented candles, incense and essential oils are all excellent ways to awaken the senses. Be sure to pick scents that make you feel sexy without being too overwhelming.
Music is your friend - Play some music that get's you in mood. Allow your body to move naturally and be completely immersed in the beat.
A little prep goes a long way
In order to get the most out of your experience, you have to connect your body with your mind. Taking a few minutes to get in the right head space makes all the difference and can change a play session from mediocre to mindblowing!